The Power of Gratitude
‘He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not but rejoices for those which he has’ – Epictetus
This week, there was reason to feel especially grateful to Isabella Velasquez (Year 11) because she shared her CAS project photobook on the topic of gratitude and its impact upon mental health to be displayed in our Wellbeing space.

At this time of the year, when many of us are subsumed by rampant consumerism and despite the jingle of joy we all have at the prospect of some respite from work schedules, it is humbling to take time out to be grateful. We need to reflect upon which beliefs, values and habits drive our urges to constantly strive to be more, have more and achieve more.
Rationally, we know that the acquisition of ‘things’ doesn’t result in lasting happiness. In fact, it’s not happiness that makes us grateful, but gratitude makes us happy. This mindset encourages generosity, empathy, and contentment. Unlike gifts, which may only offer short-term excitement, gratitude cultivates long-term emotional wellbeing. We know that grateful individuals are more likely to help others and show empathy.
Gratitude is the recognition that life has been good to us and acknowledgment, the intentional recognition and appreciation of the positive aspects of our lives. Although it might feel counterintuitive to stop and cultivate gratitude when the world feels unpredictable with ongoing conflict, economic hardships and climate concerns, gratitude does not equate with denying or ignoring difficulties but adopting an intentional stance against despair. It is not straightforward, of course, and may need to be developed as a habit but it can be ‘… part of a powerful, nourishing, developmental process …and for it to be a transformative experience, gratitude has to be spontaneous, it has to be real, and it has to grow inside a relationship with another person’. Sarner, 2025 Gratitude can be truly healing
So, what are the benefits of gratitude?
Research consistently shows that practicing gratitude reduces stress, improves mood, and life satisfaction more sustainably than achievement-based growth. Cregg and Cheavens (2021) found that gratitude is ‘strongly affiliated with positive affect, life satisfaction, extraversion, forgiveness, and a negative affiliation with substance abuse and neuroticism, as well as an inverse relationship between gratitude and anxiety and depression’. What is gratitude and why is it so important Passmore and Oades, (2016) found that gratitude can help build and maintain relationships with others, resulting in hope and more proactive behaviours toward others. Gratitude can have a snowball effect.
Joel Wong Ph.D in his 2025 article The Gift of Gratitude argues that gratitude boosts joy, reduces stress, and improves mental health. Presents we receive may only trigger delight in the moment whereas a consequence of gratitude can be long-term emotional wellbeing.
How do we become more grateful?

One way to do this is by adopting a gift mindset which involves focussing on the important and precious things in our lives as gifts freely given to us. It can be about considering people who helped us without the expectation of reciprocation.
It can also be practical such as:
- Writing a gratitude list
- Starting a gratitude journal
- Practicing mindfulness
- Creating a gratitude jar
- Writing a thank-you message
- Taking gratitude walks
- Making gratitude chains
- Engaging in random acts of kindness
- Playing the alphabet thank-you game: for each letter of the alphabet, participants name something for which they’re thankful.

Gratitude aligns naturally with our Visible Wellbeing S.E.A.R.C.H. Pathways, Habits and Goals. There are innumerable structured gratitude practices available online and from the Wellbeing team which help with the cultivation of appreciation for what we already have, as opposed to the need to strive for more. Here are examples of other resources: Best gratitude TED talks and videos
As 2025 concludes, I feel enormous gratitude to everyone in the ISWA community and feel optimistic that 2026 will be another remarkable year.
Christine Rowlands
School counsellor































